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I’m Corey, this is my wife Pam.

Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.

We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

I empower people. Encourage them.
I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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We really love making this podcast together. It’s straight-forward, it’s honest, it’s smart and it’s real. Let’s talk about what actually happens in our bedrooms, right?

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With featured guests like

Ian Kerner

Author, Sex Therapist

Jennifer Findlayson Fife

Marriage and Family Therapist

Dr. Robert Glover

Author, speaker

Emily Nagoski

Author

Lori Brotto

Canadian psychologist, Sex Therapist

Laurie Mintz

Sexuality psychologist

Vanessa Marin

Psychotherapist, Writer

Gary Thomas

Author, Speaker

Stephen Snyder

Author, MD

Recent Episodes

Is Sex A Normal Function? #652

Is Sex A Normal Function? #652

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What Money Means | Bill Nelson #650

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Our Articles

Navigating Sex In The Brain

Navigating Sex In The Brain

In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, maintaining a vibrant and fulfilling sexual connection in a long-term marriage can be a challenging endeavor. The intricacies of intimacy evolve over time, influenced by various factors such as personal growth, societal...

Right or Learning

Right or Learning

In life we are faced with countless decisions to make each and every day. Some work out well, some flounder along and some seem to fail. I don't like to look at decisions as either it was right or wrong. Instead - it was right or I'm learning something. For over the...

Does Your Marriage Lack Passion?

Does Your Marriage Lack Passion?

The alarm goes off, you get ready for the day. Get the rest of the house up, kids out the door to school, head off to work. Get your job done. Battle traffic. Eat dinner. Go to the kids practice. Get them in bed. Watch a little TV or surf the socials. Go to sleep....

The Art Of Self-Soothing Towards A Better Marriage

The Art Of Self-Soothing Towards A Better Marriage

To become acquainted with oneself is a terrible shock. ~ Carl Jung Marriage, or any committed relationship, has the ability to bring excitement and passion into our lives. At the same time however, as the relationship progresses and more roadblocks and perpetual...

The Passionately Married Podcast Turns 12 This Week!!!

The Passionately Married Podcast Turns 12 This Week!!!

This week we celebrate another milestone. Our little podcast turns 12! In 2011 we hit the podcast airwaves with a straight-forward and honest look at marriage and sex. Now, 12 years later, even though our name has changed - our mission has not. We are still on a 100...

Don’t Go At It Alone

Don’t Go At It Alone

If you are a listener of the Passionately Married Podcast you know that Pam and I are open and transparent about the things we’ve struggled with in life. In fact, pretty much every product and resource we offer on the website has come from our own personal challenges....

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