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What would you do if you knew you could not fail?
 The following is taken from Jonathan Fields, Awake @ The Wheel. Great questions to explore. Three simple questions: If you knew you could not fail and those around you would not only suspend judgment, but wholeheartedly support you: what would you do? Are you doing...
Hello, I'm Corey, and I'm a Complainer
Last week I introduced the idea of going 21 days in a row without complaining. The idea is from a Kansas City minister named Will Bowen who has created a buzz across the globe. My wife and I are almost a week in to this crusade and it has become evident that we...
Am I Committed to Marriage or Will I Be Committed?
Photo courtesy joedonovanbrown What does it mean to be committed to something? Am I to give everything for the sake of my commitment? Will I lose myself because of my commitment? We make commitments all the time. To jobs, community, creditors, family, spouse. At the...
Parenting 101 According to American Idol
Photo courtesy Txallekat It seemed like a typical beginning to a Monday morning for the rest of us, for them, it was a chance of a lifetime. As the sun peaked over the horizon and simply yawned itself awake, to them it was as if it was exploding onto the scene...
Marital espresso: Wake up to an intentional marriage.
Photo courtesy Scott Beale / Laughing Squid As much as possible, I strive to be very intentional in my marriage. To be aware of what is just below the surface between us and try to bring it up to the light. To be more conscious about my choices in my marriage and my...
How to Have an Affair… With Your Spouse.
Picture courtesy of Epbizah. If you have been married for any length of time, it is likely that there have been times when passion and adventure waned. Routine and survival becomes the focus. It is also very likely that throughout the course of a marriage, the...
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