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I’m Corey, this is Pam.

Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.

We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

I empower people. Encourage them.
I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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We really love making this podcast together. It’s straight-forward, it’s honest, it’s smart and it’s real. Let’s talk about what actually happens in our bedrooms, right?

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Ian Kerner

Author, Sex Therapist

Jennifer Findlayson Fife

Marriage and Family Therapist

Dr. Robert Glover

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Emily Nagoski


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Laurie Mintz

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Vanessa Marin

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Gary Thomas

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Stephen Snyder

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"Learned to work on myself"

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How to impress people and tick them off at the same time.

It's time to face the facts, we all have some concern about what others think of us. If we didn't, then the time we spent picking out our clothes, preparing ourselves for going out, worrying about what we drive, or where we live would not take near as long as it does....

A bonsai marriage or marriage fully alive?

Have you noticed how marriage continues to be a big part of American culture? Even though the divorce rate still is hovering around the 50% level, people continue to get married. Marriage holds a special place in most people's life. We all want to be involved in...

The greatest human weakness.

"It's no use, we've failed." "If some things don't change, I want a divorce." "I regret to inform you but that mass we removed is cancerous." What strikes me about news like this is the wide variety of ways it is received by people. Why is it that one person will hear...

No more “shoulds” this holiday

The other day while thinking over my seasonal to do list, I kept referring to each line item as "I should do this" or "I should do that." It occurred to me that all the items on my list were things I put there for some reason, but were they really that important. If I...

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