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I’m Corey, this is Pam.

Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.

We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

I empower people. Encourage them.
I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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We really love making this podcast together. It’s straight-forward, it’s honest, it’s smart and it’s real. Let’s talk about what actually happens in our bedrooms, right?

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Relationship rebooting

"Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?" "That depends a good deal on where you want to get to," said the Cat. "I don't much care where ..." said Alice. "Then it doesn't matter which way you go," said the Cat. ~ Lewis Carroll, Alice in...

Dreamlining your life

Vast amounts of money are spent by almost every country in border protection, although I never could confirm how much Greenland spends. Regardless, border protection is a big deal. It will be one of the issues discussed at length during next year's presidential race....

How have you been? Busy

My guess is that you hear this question several times each day as you go about your normal activities. I would also venture that the "busy" answer is used more often than not. Since when did being busy become so appealing? Something to strive for in order to appear...

NO can be a complete sentence

The other day I was approached by an acquaintance who was offering me a great opportunity to be a part of a great organization where a lot of money could be made with very little work. He got my name in passing and was good at following up leads. During his call to...

Fear or fully alive?

Named must your fear be before banish it you can. -YODA, Star Wars, The Empire Strikes Back Many people go into a marriage with an ideal in mind. After saying "I do" to him or her, life will be a happily ever after, long walk on a sunset beach, hand in hand, staring...

Inside out

There are phases in life where it seems that things are out of balance. A sense of uneasiness just beneath the surface. Things just don't feel right. You often can't immediately put your finger on the cause of the feelings, but you recognize they are there. More often...

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