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I’m Corey, this is Pam.

Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.

We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

I empower people. Encourage them.
I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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We really love making this podcast together. It’s straight-forward, it’s honest, it’s smart and it’s real. Let’s talk about what actually happens in our bedrooms, right?

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Ian Kerner

Author, Sex Therapist

Jennifer Findlayson Fife

Marriage and Family Therapist

Dr. Robert Glover

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Emily Nagoski


Lori Brotto

Canadian psychologist, Sex Therapist

Laurie Mintz

Sexuality psychologist

Vanessa Marin

Psychotherapist, Writer

Gary Thomas

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Stephen Snyder

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"Learned to work on myself"

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Don’t borrow trouble

As most of you know, this past week my wife lost her father due to brain cancer. The week surrounding his death was a blur. So much to get done, so many people to see, others to hug and talk with. As I look back on last week, it was great to see the impact my...

Stop and smell the roses

What do you do when life hits you hard? When things are going along just fine, and then the phone rings? Bad news. Something terrible has happened. Life at those moments is hard to understand. Why do bad things happen to good people? Why does life involve so much...


Every person seeks happiness. You hear it all the time. "I just want to be happy." "Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness." This last phrase points out an important aspect, the pursuit of happiness. There is no guarantee that it can be obtained. One of the...

The Back Porch is Now Open

While the official start of the 38 Day Build a Better Marriage Challenge is not for another 2 weeks - in preparation for the launch, the Back Porch is now open. If you've yet to hear about the Back Porch - you can read more here. Whenever my wife and I have had any...

Coming Soon! The 38 Day Build A Better Marriage Challenge

Does the thought of taking your marriage to the next level seem overwhelming? If you want to improve your relationship but have been putting it in the "one day" list or you don't want to rock the boat - you're not alone. Most people fall victim to the belief that the...

Sometimes you make me feel so…

While driving down the highway in the fast lane, the person in front of you appears to have no idea what the fast lane means. After running all over town with the kids, you arrive home. They know they have rooms yet insist that the entire house is their closet and...

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