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I’m Corey, this is Pam.
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I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.
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The Back Porch is Now Open
While the official start of the 38 Day Build a Better Marriage Challenge is not for another 2 weeks - in preparation for the launch, the Back Porch is now open. If you've yet to hear about the Back Porch - you can read more here. Whenever my wife and I have had any...
Coming Soon! The 38 Day Build A Better Marriage Challenge
Does the thought of taking your marriage to the next level seem overwhelming? If you want to improve your relationship but have been putting it in the "one day" list or you don't want to rock the boat - you're not alone. Most people fall victim to the belief that the...
Sometimes you make me feel so…
While driving down the highway in the fast lane, the person in front of you appears to have no idea what the fast lane means. After running all over town with the kids, you arrive home. They know they have rooms yet insist that the entire house is their closet and...
What did you expect?
We hear what we expect to hear, we see what we expect to see. Our expectation changes our experience. If we walk into a meeting and expect it to be a long, drawn out process rivaled only by a root canal or preparing your taxes, more than likely it will not disappoint....
What did you just say?
Now I know you have been in this situation. You are involved in your daily tasks with your family or significant other and they say something in passing to you. While whatever they said was innocuous, your interpretation was anything but. So you storm out of the room...
It’s Alive, It’s Alive!
"Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who come alive." -Harold Thurman Whitman Have you ever asked yourself this question: What makes me come alive? What stirs my...
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