Turn On Sexy
Cultivate the space between you and your spouse through conversations and actions.
“Its a show about sex, yes. But really it’s a show about living a better life”
~ longtime SMR listener
650+
Episodes
13+
Million Downloads
top 10
Marriage & Sex Podcast
I’m Corey, this is my wife Pam.
Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.
I empower people. Encourage them.
I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.
Our Podcast
We really love making this podcast together. It’s straight-forward, it’s honest, it’s smart and it’s real. Let’s talk about what actually happens in our bedrooms, right?
Try this popular episode!

With featured guests like

Ian Kerner

Jennifer Findlayson Fife

Dr. Robert Glover

Emily Nagoski

Lori Brotto

Laurie Mintz

Vanessa Marin

Gary Thomas

Stephen Snyder
Recent Episodes
What If I Married The Wrong Person? #648
Top iTunes Marriage Podcast 13+ Million Downloads hosted by Dr. Corey Allan What If I Married The Wrong Person? #648[mepr-show...
Sorry Not Sorry #647
Top iTunes Marriage Podcast 13+ Million Downloads hosted by Dr. Corey Allan Sorry Not Sorry #647 Xtended Version -...
Resentment Revisited #646
Top iTunes Marriage Podcast 13+ Million Downloads hosted by Dr. Corey Allan Resentment Revisited #646 Xtended...
Conditionally Unconditional #645
Top iTunes Marriage Podcast 13+ Million Downloadshosted by Dr. Corey Allan Conditionally Unconditional #645...
Small changes &
so much more passion.

Anyone can do it. Really.
Online Courses
A Great Read
Free Ebooks
Text Prompts
Our Articles
Are you lazy busy?
There are times in my life (usually this happens for me in the middle of the night or at the beginning of a new season) when I need to ask myself some honest questions about life. Often these are big ones like: Who am I? What am I doing with my life? These are just 2...
Recovery is what makes a great marriage!
Can you handle the tough conversations? There are many tough talks that happen in marriage. Being able to recover from them is the key to addressing them. You may not react well initially, or during the conversation. You may get defensive, attacking, or critical --...
Sex Seminar 2023: 31 ONLINE Sex Classes for Couples
From the comfort & privacy of your own home, you can watch sex therapists & marriage experts teach sex lessons covering everything you ever wanted to know about married sex! From Learning About the Female Orgasm, to How Hormones Affect Sex Drive, to Rekindling...
Brave Listening
"When we can acknowledge that and make room for that and accept that that is part of the human experience, then we can sit with someone and we can hold space for them and be present with them without feeling like we have to do something to make them feel better." -...
How 5 Minutes A Day Can Help Your Connection
In this week's episode, Dr. Wyatt Fisher joins me to discuss the importance of constructive feedback in marriage and how to give and receive it effectively. "Conflict is the price we pay for intimacy. And so if you're wanting to have a deep connection with your...
Ultimatums in Marriage
When things happen in married life, whether bad or good, a common reaction is to blame (or give credit to) someone else. While they may have been a contributing factor to the result of a situation, when we fail to acknowledge our own role in life's circumstances, we...
We’re in this together, right?
Your words could really help us out.
Stay Connected to Get The Latest Podcast Alerts
We came online back in 2008. Our podcast began in 2011. Since then, we have grown into a trusted resource and vibrant relationship community. Our dynamic, engaged community of married people are the real heroes that make all this possible. We hope you’ll join us.