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We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

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I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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Relationships Are Easy

Relationships Are Easy

Relationships are actually pretty easy. I didn't always believe this. In fact, I used to believe relationships are hard work. I've written these very words many times. You've probably even heard this phrase before. It is often stated as a Truism in our society, and...

Natural dynamics in every relationship

Natural dynamics in every relationship

There are natural dynamics at work in every marriage and relationship. How do these impact you? Here's a quick preview of one of our upcoming video courses, Desire Matters Course. https://youtu.be/jniPyF1sM-w Our Marriage Matters Courses launch in September of 2022!...

Natural dynamics in every relationship

A Better Framework

This is a common email I receive. A wife asked for help. She felt stuck in her marriage and wanted me to give her advice. While I do work with individuals in a counseling and coaching relationship, I was curious in the way she was wording her email so I asked her to...

Doctor people and coach people

Doctor people and coach people

*The following is taken and adapted from Mark Manson. For years I have been producing content on Sexy Marriage Radio and the blog aimed at helping people take the next steps in their relationships and life. Over the years, it seems that people who seek out marriage...

How to tell if a man has lost his courage

How to tell if a man has lost his courage

This is the second message in a short series aimed at husbands who stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Man Of His Word Mastermind Groups that start in August. You can learn more by clicking here. If...

How Honest Are You?

How Honest Are You?

I'm beginning the process of enrollment in the Man Of His Word Mastermind groups -- with new groups launching in August. No man has a good enough memory to make a successful liar. ~ Abraham Lincoln If asked, you probably will say you’re an honest person. Meaning, you...

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