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Keeping Your Cool
I know you've been there before, you're in the midst of an intense discussion with your spouse and it moves beyond a conversation about the issue at hand and gets personal. A button has been pushed, or you pushed their button and now it heats up even more. The...
Sexy Marriage Radio Turns 11!!!!
Today is a big day. Sexy Marriage Radio is celebrating our 11th birthday today!!!! Celebrate with us because you are part of this with us. The SMR Nation is such a vital aspect of our journey thus far. Thank you for the 11 years of listening and supporting us. Here's...
Me vs We
You walk in the door and are greeted with… “Honey, we need to talk about a few things.” If you’re human, your insides immediately tighten and your defenses prepare for battle. It’s a common occurrence. Your spouse tells you what’s going on with them and you react. The...
Relationships Are Easy
Relationships are actually pretty easy. I didn't always believe this. In fact, I used to believe relationships are hard work. I've written these very words many times. You've probably even heard this phrase before. It is often stated as a Truism in our society, and...
Natural dynamics in every relationship
There are natural dynamics at work in every marriage and relationship. How do these impact you? Here's a quick preview of one of our upcoming video courses, Desire Matters Course. https://youtu.be/jniPyF1sM-w Our Marriage Matters Courses launch in September of 2022!...
A Better Framework
This is a common email I receive. A wife asked for help. She felt stuck in her marriage and wanted me to give her advice. While I do work with individuals in a counseling and coaching relationship, I was curious in the way she was wording her email so I asked her to...
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