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Abundance vs Deprivation
When it comes to how you view this world, if you’re like many people, you fall into one of two categories. People who don’t believe they will ever get any of the goodness in life. Or, people who hold onto hope that maybe someday, they will get some goodness, yet have...
The 2022 SMR Getaway
Registration is now open for the 2022 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Click here to join us. Come spend four days with Pam and me and lots of other couples from the SMR Nation in Indianapolis, Indiana. SAVE THE DATE- Thursday, June 23- Saturday, June 25, 2022. This is...
Nothing Left Unsaid
A member of a MoHW Mastermind Group published a new book ... Nothing Left Unsaid, by Joe DeBruin, PhD The premise of this book is to speak to those who have be influential in his life, and to encourage others to do the same. What follows is a chapter written to the...
My Three Words for 2022
You are likely familiar with the concept of New Year's Resolutions - which are also historically already broken by mid-January. Back in 2015 I came across the Three Words concept from Chris Brogan. Here's more about this idea ... What is My 3 Words About? The My Three...
Entitled or Exposed
I believe that marriage is designed to grow us up. This is covered in greater detail in our new video course - Rekindle and Connect. If you look at married life this way, you'll see that growth comes from the pressure a relationship with another human creates....
SMR Mini-Conferences
Mini Dr Allan is hosting two, 2-Day Mini-Conferences Live to help create passionate marriages. These life-changing mini-conferences will be hosted at Christ Fellowship Church, 2801 Orchid Dr. McKinney, TX, 75072. And we want you to be part of our live audience. We are...
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