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I’m Corey, this is Pam.

Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.

We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

I empower people. Encourage them.
I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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We really love making this podcast together. It’s straight-forward, it’s honest, it’s smart and it’s real. Let’s talk about what actually happens in our bedrooms, right?

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Doctor people and coach people

Doctor people and coach people

*The following is taken and adapted from Mark Manson. For years I have been producing content on Sexy Marriage Radio and the blog aimed at helping people take the next steps in their relationships and life. Over the years, it seems that people who seek out marriage...

How to tell if a man has lost his courage

How to tell if a man has lost his courage

This is the second message in a short series aimed at husbands who stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Man Of His Word Mastermind Groups that start in August. You can learn more by clicking here. If...

How Honest Are You?

How Honest Are You?

I'm beginning the process of enrollment in the Man Of His Word Mastermind groups -- with new groups launching in August. No man has a good enough memory to make a successful liar. ~ Abraham Lincoln If asked, you probably will say you’re an honest person. Meaning, you...

SMR Getaway Experience

SMR Getaway Experience

The 2022 SMR Getaway in downtown Indy was a great success! Here's one attendees experience ... Corey and Pam My wife and I had a great time at the Getaway in Indianapolis. We’ve been to several marriage getaways, both in person and virtual, and yours was by far the...

Is YOUR Marriage a High Value Item?

Is YOUR Marriage a High Value Item?

When my wife Pam began as the permanent co-host with me on Sexy Marriage Radio, we were also experimenting with creating video versions of the shows. On our first ever video, right before hitting record for the audio (with the camera already rolling) Pam looked over...

SMR: Kink and BDSM

SMR: Kink and BDSM

On this week's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio we explore the world of Kink and BDSM. You can listen here: https://passionatelymarried.net/podcast/exploring-kink-and-bdsm/ After listening to the show, check out the conversations taking place in the Nation about this...

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