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We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

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I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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Should I Tell My Wife? | Feedback Wednesday #610

Should I Tell My Wife? | Feedback Wednesday #610

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Our Bodies Tell God’s Story | Christopher West #609

Our Bodies Tell God’s Story | Christopher West #609

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The Importance of Agency | Dr Juliana Hauser #608

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Passion Killers | Dr Alexandra Stockwell #607

Passion Killers | Dr Alexandra Stockwell #607

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SMR Getaway Experience

SMR Getaway Experience

The 2022 SMR Getaway in downtown Indy was a great success! Here's one attendees experience ... Corey and Pam My wife and I had a great time at the Getaway in Indianapolis. We’ve been to several marriage getaways, both in person and virtual, and yours was by far the...

Is YOUR Marriage a High Value Item?

Is YOUR Marriage a High Value Item?

When my wife Pam began as the permanent co-host with me on Sexy Marriage Radio, we were also experimenting with creating video versions of the shows. On our first ever video, right before hitting record for the audio (with the camera already rolling) Pam looked over...

SMR: Kink and BDSM

SMR: Kink and BDSM

On this week's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio we explore the world of Kink and BDSM. You can listen here: https://passionatelymarried.net/podcast/exploring-kink-and-bdsm/ After listening to the show, check out the conversations taking place in the Nation about this...

SMR Is Hiring

SMR Is Hiring

We are looking to hire a virtual assistant to help us out with enhancing and expanding the SRM Nation. What We Are Looking For This position is ideal for someone who wants to work remotely, but you must have reliable WiFi access! You also must have a great work ethic,...

Abundance vs Deprivation

Abundance vs Deprivation

When it comes to how you view this world, if you’re like many people, you fall into one of two categories. People who don’t believe they will ever get any of the goodness in life. Or, people who hold onto hope that maybe someday, they will get some goodness, yet have...

The 2022 SMR Getaway

The 2022 SMR Getaway

  Registration is now open for the 2022 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Click here to join us. Come spend four days with Pam and me and lots of other couples from the SMR Nation in Indianapolis, Indiana. SAVE THE DATE- Thursday, June 23- Saturday, June 25, 2022. This is...

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