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I’m Corey, this is Pam.
Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.
I empower people. Encourage them.
I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.
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Mini Dr Allan is hosting two, 2-Day Mini-Conferences Live to help create passionate marriages. These life-changing mini-conferences will be hosted at Christ Fellowship Church, 2801 Orchid Dr. McKinney, TX, 75072. And we want you to be part of our live audience. We are...
Rekindle and Connect Course Now Available
Today is a big day for the SMR Nation - we are launching for our first video course - Rekindle and Connect. As of this morning the course is now live and for the next 48 hours we are having a FLASH SALE. For the next 48 hours you have the opportunity to join the...
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I’ve heard this phrase over and over again in my work as a therapist, coach, speaker and podcast host: How do I get my spouse to ....? There was a time I used to say this a lot too. After all, I’ve been married to Pam for 28 years and we've had our share of gridlock...
Passion Isn’t The Problem
Life has a way of grinding us up if we're not careful. Think about it. Where most of us spend a bulk of our week is even called the grind. Then when we add in the complexities, and at times drudgeries of relationships, we've got a recipe for struggle and life sucking...
What If Our Differences Are Good For Marriage?
Another preview of our upcoming course - Rekindle and Connect. What if our differences are actually good for marriage? The course will be available in a couple of weeks. And we will be having a FLASH SALE the first 48 hours it's available. Launching November...
Know Where You’re Going
An old story - but worth sharing again... A boat docked in a tiny Mexican village. An American tourist complimented the Mexican fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took him to catch them. "Not very long," answered the Mexican. "But then, why...
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