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I’m Corey, this is Pam.

Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.

We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

I empower people. Encourage them.
I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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We really love making this podcast together. It’s straight-forward, it’s honest, it’s smart and it’s real. Let’s talk about what actually happens in our bedrooms, right?

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Ian Kerner

Author, Sex Therapist

Jennifer Findlayson Fife

Marriage and Family Therapist

Dr. Robert Glover

Author, speaker

Emily Nagoski


Lori Brotto

Canadian psychologist, Sex Therapist

Laurie Mintz

Sexuality psychologist

Vanessa Marin

Psychotherapist, Writer

Gary Thomas

Author, Speaker

Stephen Snyder

Author, MD

Recent Episodes

Principles of Passion and Desire #591

Principles of Passion and Desire #591

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Perimenopause | Dr Kelly Casperson #590

Perimenopause | Dr Kelly Casperson #590

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Fantasies | Dr Justin Lehmiller #589

Fantasies | Dr Justin Lehmiller #589

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Sexual Shame and Brokenness | Jay Stringer #588

Sexual Shame and Brokenness | Jay Stringer #588

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A years worth of reminders and question prompts to discuss.

"Much deeper than surface suggestions"

"Learned to work on myself"

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"starting point for a long road of discovery"

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Our Articles

Differences In Sexual Desire

Differences In Sexual Desire

Are you the high desire or the low desire spouse when it comes to sex? Have desire differences created problems in your marriage? Sooner or later, most couples experience problems in this area. Desire problems are the most common sexual complaint for couples. It's...

On The Shortness of Life: Lucius Seneca

On The Shortness of Life: Lucius Seneca

Life is a story. A story that could be filled with love, passion, adventure, good and evil, heroes and villains, but is more often filled with routine, schedules, and the daily monotony of life. What if we each have the chance to write our own story? Our own marriage...

SMR Saved My Life

SMR Saved My Life

This week Sexy Marriage Radio celebrates 10 years being on the air!! It's amazing to realize how far our message continues to spread, and how many listeners have been impacted by our episodes. We are completely humbled and grateful for all the support and feedback...

Create More Intimacy

Create More Intimacy

One of the major things marriage provides is it's the best chance to create an intimate connection with another person. It's part of marriage's elegant design. You and your spouse can create an entire part of life that only the two of you know about. Yet, this...

Could Bad Sex Be Good?

Could Bad Sex Be Good?

Steve meets Michelle. They fall in love and get married shortly after graduation. For our story Steve is the high sex desire spouse and Michelle is the low sex desire spouse. Early in their marriage, Steve’s always raring to go. Anytime, anyplace, the more the...

Instagram Sex Q&A – Sex as a Commodity?

Instagram Sex Q&A – Sex as a Commodity?

Our Instagram collaboration with @christianswhocursesometimes continues (happens every-other Monday). What follows is last Monday's Q&A. Also, if you're on Instagram be sure to follow @sexymarriageradio Here are the questions asked, along with my replies.......

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