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Revisiting Stress and Desire | Dr Lori Brotto #642
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On the Regular Version …
We go back in time to revisit an episode with Dr Lori Brotto.
We to discuss how stress impacts life and sex – specifically sexual desire.
Learn more about Dr Brotto on her website – www.debunkingdesire.com also find her on social media using this #debunkingdesire
On the Xtended Version …
Lori and I talk more in depth about her research and the myths surrounding sexual desire.
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Re-Storying Our Lives | Chris Bruno #641
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Chris Bruno joins me today as we dive into the world of re-storying, also could be termed restoring, our past and our lives.
What exactly does this idea mean?
Listen to find out.
Learn more about Chris and his work here – https://www.restorationproject.net/
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Marriage Warning Signs #640
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On the Regular Version …
In this week’s episode Pam and I discuss warning signs of problems in marriage, and any relationships for that matter.
What are the various signs to watch out for in a relationship?
What if I see many of these in my marriage or life?
On the Xtended Version …
We answer the question of what to do if some of the warning signs are visible in y life or marriage.
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8 Steps Towards Great Sex #639
We revisit a past segment from the archives where we dive into the idea of what is permissible in marriage and sex?
This conversation is really less about one moral compass for all and more about the impacts of whatever it is you desire and seek in your marriage and sex life.
On the Xtended Version …
What are the steps towards creating a great sex life?
We share 8 of them.
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Doing The Best You Can | Nellie Harden #638
Nellie Harden joins me as we have a conversation about marriage and family life and how in the midst of this time, important things get missed or lost.
Learn more about Nellie on her site – https://www.nellieharden.com/
On the Xtended Version …
I ask Nellie a question based on something mentioned in the regular version of the show … Do parents really do the best they can?
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Trust Isn’t What We Think #637
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On the Regular Version …
An email from a husband who had an affair 5 years ago – and he and his wife haven’t had sex since.
A question about how to talk about masturbation, wet dreams and pornography with adolescents.
On the Xtended Version …
Trust. We all believe it is vital to relationships. But what if it’s not what we think it is?
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Emotional Resolution | Cedric Bertelli #636
Today I welcome Cedric Bertelli as we talk about his work with emotional resolution. We are all familiar with emotions, we all have them. But Cedric’s work focuses on the emotions that are triggered from things in our past, or fears, or worry.
How do you actually heal from them, or make them stop happening?
That’s what we discuss. Learn more about Cedric here https://www.cedricbertelli.com/
On the Xtended Version …
We keep the conversation about EmRes going – only turn it a little more personal.
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Intimacy Anorexia Or Is It Cruelty? #635
An email came in wanting our take on Dr Doug Weiss’ Intimacy Anorexia concept.
What exactly does this mean?
Are we each capable of this?
What do we do when see see this?
And, what if it’s actually better viewed as cruelty?
On the Xtended Version …
Author Kate Bowler has some helpful words regarding what to say and what not to say when faced with someone else’s grief or loss or struggle.
Words we all need to learn and use. Or stop using.
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Men’s Sexual Wellness | Dean Pohlman #634
Today I welcome guest Dean Pohlman, the founder of Man Flow Yoga. Dean shares his unique journey into the world of yoga, which started accidentally with a fitness-focused class that turned out to be more challenging and beneficial than he expected.
We discuss how yoga is often overlooked by men who prefer intense workouts for building muscle, but Dean emphasizes that yoga’s slow, controlled movements, body awareness, and breathing also lead to functional strength and improved mobility. He highlights that yoga not only helps address weaknesses and build muscle differently from traditional weight training but also makes the body more efficient and less prone to joint strain during other workouts.
Learn more about Dean here – https://manflowyoga.com/
On the Xtended Version …
Dean and I switch gears a little and focus more on the sexual wellness aspect of men and how yoga can assist in our experiences in sex. You won’t want to miss this conversation.
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About your hosts
Corey and Pam Allan
He’s a PhD level marriage and family therapist and she’s a woman who speaks her mind. Together they’re the incredibly authentic, honest, smart, helpful, shockingly open, and seriously fun couple you want to grab a cup of coffee and hang with. They share the ups and downs of marriage along with their listeners, while giving you conversation starters and actions you can take to ramp up your relationship.

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