SMR Reference and Resource List

Over the years of SMR we have referenced several books and resources that are worth exploring. Check out our exhaustive list below! 

Dr Corey Allan’s book – Naked Marriage


17. Kelly Chicas, Keep Your Pants On

85. Gary Chapman referenced, The 5 Love Languages

92. Gary Wilson, Your Brain On Porn

103. Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo, One Extraordinary Marriage

104. Joshua Becker, Becoming Minimalist

105. Shannon Ethridge, Fantasy Fallacy

116. Our Intimate Choices

136. Dr. William Struthers, Wired for Intimacy

140. Steve Arterburn,

150. Dr. Doug Rosenau, A Celebration of Sex

169. Dr. Carol Tanksley,

181. Richard Blankenship, Cornerstone Training

183. David Schnarch referenced, Books

190.  Our Intimate Choices

207. Chris Hedges referenced, The Empire of Illusion

221. Denis Merkas, Massage

260. The Gottman Institute

262. Corey and Shannon’s Favorite Books

263. More Books

264. Dr. Corey Allan, Naked Marriage

267. Denis Merkas, Massage

312. Dr. Robert Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

313. How To Choose A Shrink

314. Tray and Melody Lovvorn, Undone Redone

322. Covenant Spice

323. Sensual Bedding

326. Dr. Glover

327. Women at the Well

336. Debby Wade,, When Sex Hurts, Heal Pelvic Pain

341. Lorraine Wrage, Intimate Matters

343. Caleb and Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele, Only You Forever

Seth and Melanie Studley, The Anatomy of Marriage

345. Nancy Houston,

347. Dr. Carol Tanksley,

349. Laurie Mintz, Becoming Cliterate

351. Dr. Jonathan Robinson, Finding Happiness

353. Leo Babauta, Zen Habits

355. Laurie Watson, Awakening Center

357. J. Parker Hot, Holy, Humorous Sex Chat for Christian Wives

363. Sheila Wray Gregoire, The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex

365. Stephen Snyder, Love Worth Making

366. A Private Affair Game: Discontinued

367. Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, Sex, God, and The Conservative Church

369. Dr. Lori Brotto, Better Sex Through Mindfulness

371. Dr. Tim Cole,  Broken Trust


373. Stephen Ing, Steven Ing’s website

375. Ultimate Intimacy

377. Caleb and Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele, Only You Forever

Seth and Melanie Studley,  The Anatomy of Marriage

379. Sheri Winston, Women’s Anatomy of Arousal

381. Dr. Laurie Betito,

384. Where Did I Come From?, What’s Happening To Me?

385. Dr. Julie Slattery, Authentic Intimacy

388. Jessa Zimmerman

389. Dale Sadler,

392. Pam Costa, Pam Costa’s video

396. Laurie Mintz,

401. John Gottman referenced,

402. Dr. Debi Silber,

406. Dr. Aziz Gazipura, Not Nice

408. Eva Mendes,

410. Winifred Reilly, It Takes One to Tango

416. Ian Kerner, She Comes First

417. Seth and Melanie Studley,  The Anatomy of Marriage

418. Denis Merkas, Massage

422. One Sided Sex

425. Dr. Glover

428. Jessa Zimmerman

431. Jeff Abraham, Promescent

432. Ann Gadd, Sex and The Enneagram

435. Dr Steven Stosny, Compassion Power

436. Deb Thomas,

437.  Dr Jennifer Findlayson-Fife,

439. Dr. Claudia Grauf-Grounds

440. Dr. Laura Dabney

442. Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray

443. Reading list from episode

Dr. David Schnarch, Passionate Marriage, Intimacy and Desire

Victor Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning

Irvin Yalom, The Gift of Therapy

Lori Gottlieb, Maybe You Should Talk To Someone

John Eldredge, Wild At Heart

Donald Miller, Blue Like Jazz, A Million Miles In A Thousand Years, Scary Close

Brene Brown, Daring Greatly

Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving

Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving an F 

Dr. Corey Allan, Naked Marriage

445. Gary Thomas, When To Walk Away

446. Jessa Zimmerman

449. Melissa Orlov,

454. Vanessa Marin,

456. Emily Nagoski, Come As You Are

458. Dr. Laura Dabney

459. Dr. Lori Brotto,

461. Vanessa Marin,

462. Dr. Nan Wise,

463.  Dr Jennifer Findlayson-Fife,

464. 445. Gary Thomas, Cherish


467. Peggy Orenstein, Boys and Sex

468. Treatment for Painful Sex

469. Dr. Melanie Greenberg, Stress Proof Your Brain

473. Dr. Corey Allan, Ignite Your Wife’s Passion

474. Justin Lehmiller

476. Sheila Wray Gregoire, 31 Days to Great Sex

479. Dr. Kathleen Smith

480. Intimately Us Marriage App, Dan Purcell, Get Your Marriage On

481. Hilary Jacobs Hendel, The Change Triangle

483. Dr. Amy Killen, Sex and Aging

485. Dr. Marni Feuerman, Discernment Counseling

488. Erin Ramachandran, Mental Health Strong

493. Larry Hagner. The Dad Edge

494. Dr. Laurie Mintz, Becoming Cliterate

495. Dr. J.W. Freiberg, Loneliness

497. Tripp Lanier, This Book Will Make You Dangerous

498. Dr. Stephen Snyder,

507. SMRNation

  1. Irene Fehr
  1. Emily Jamea
  1. Ian Kerner

523: Denis Merkas, Massage

524. Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife,

539. Dr Emily Jamea,

542. Kelly Casperson, MD,

544. Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife,

545. Dr Laurie Watson,

547. Dr. Laurie Mintz,

549. Sheila Wray Gregoire,

550. Gary Thomas

554. Clinton and Charity Munoz Restored 2 More