What does healthy growing up look like in marriage? There are two challenges or dilemmas that have major roles in relationships. The emotional reactivity/rationality challenge and the togetherness/separateness dilemma. These two forces intermix in various and subtle...
Do you meet many chameleons each day? You know, people who have the ability to blend into the group they’re with. I know you’ve met a few, perhaps you’ve married one – or you’re one yourself. A chameleon is the person who becomes whatever...