Hangry Spouses Lash Out More

It’s a known fact that conflict will happen in marriage. You and your spouse are going to disagree, argue, and perhaps even fight. But did you know there’s a way to possibly curb the severity of these disagreements? You’ve heard the old adage...

I wish you would stop …

Every marriage, every relationship, is fraught with perpetual problems and issues. It’s common that I will counsel a couple for several sessions, they reach their desired goals, and leave with renewed hope and energy for the marriage – then come back several years...

The Biggest Marriage Killer

Wanna know the biggest marriage killer? Fusion. fusion: (noun) The process or result of joining two or more things together to form a single entity. In a fused system there is no “I”, only “we”. There is an expectation that everyone should think alike, behave the...

Will We Ever See Eye To Eye?

Every marriage has conflict. Every relationship has conflict as well. John Gottman, one of the leaders in the field of marriage research, has discovered that the majority of marital conflicts areperpetual in nature. They’re continual and repeated. In fact, 69% of all...