Get Serious, About Your Marriage

Relationship Design

This past weekend my wife and I celebrated our 22nd anniversary. Imagine if I woke up that day and I could no longer move my right arm. Everything else in my body felt fine and was working as it should. I even had feeling in my arm, I just couldn’t move it. What...

Commit to a path

Relationship Design

Over the last several years I’ve invested a lot of effort in the area located between professional therapy in an office with a trained therapist and the information you would learn if you were to buy a book. The picture in my mind is like creating the Legal Zoom...

What's wrong and how do I fix it?

Communication, Relationship Design

The dominant question for humans isn’t what’s my purpose or why am I here, it’s what’s wrong and how do I fix it. This question shapes our worldview, our parenting, even our relationships. We live in a fix it society. As if everything going...

The Secret to a Deeper Marriage Relationship

Relationship Design

Most everyone wants to have a great marriage. And everyone enters in to marriage with the hopes of deep connection. I’ve yet to encounter someone who entered into marriage with the thought “I can’t wait to be miserable with you in several...

Don’t Confuse Intention with Action

Goals and Dreams, Simplicity

With all things in life, it is important to not confuse a desire to change with actual change. Thinking about decluttering or talking about decluttering won’t result in any positive benefits. These benefits can only be experienced when the excess clutter has been...