Nice People Sex … Boring

Nice Guy

Nice Guys are everywhere although they can sometimes be tough to spot because they’re chameleons. They blend into the group they’re around in order to fit in and be liked. I know you’ve seen them (or you’re one of them). Here’s how you...

Ask The Readers: Sex Is …

Sex and Intimacy

With the great discussion taking place from yesterday’s inaugural podcast on sexual desire differences, and last week’s ask the readers being on sex and intimacy – perhaps it’s time to get down to specifics and deal with only one word this...

Ask the Readers: Sex and Intimacy, What's the Difference?

Sex and Intimacy

It’s been over a year since I first posed this question – and it’s worth discussing again. Next week we’ll dive further into the world of sex in marriage, specifically, sexual desire in marriage. But before we begin, let’s kick this word...

Ask The Readers: Is Sex an Acceptable Gift for Christmas?

Sex and Intimacy

The Holiday season, we’re told, is all about gift giving. It’s a time to celebrate togetherness, family, and love. You likely spend some time planning what you’re going to give as gifts to the various members of your family. Finding the right gift...

Ho Hum Marriage? 9 Ways To Add Some Spice

Relationship Design, Sex and Intimacy

Editor’s Note: This is part of the “one of my favorites” category. Originally published July 7, 2008. Here’s a question I received the other day from a Simple Marriage reader. Dear Dr. Allan- My husband and I have been married for 13 years, and while we’ve had our ups...